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Monday, October 06, 2008

Poster Girl

Did you catch Rynae in the news recently? She's been talent spotted and is now a renowned poster girl! Her photos are everywhere!

Well, I'm just pulling your leg. I came across an interesting website that can digitally image faces onto pre-shot pictures. It's really fun! Wanna check it out too? Alrite... I'll share.

Go to Photofunia and try it out yourself. Go on. You'll find yourself ironically on a model's outfit, on Vogue's cover page and on Angelina Jolie's t-shirt!

Saturday, October 04, 2008

Explorers In the East

After sending Asher to his first Shichida Method enrichment class, San Yi and us drove to E!Hub at Downtown East. The entertainment centre has been opened for months but none of us has visited it! On approaching the venue, we were awed by its Cadbury branded Ferris Wheel near its main entrance. This place sure looks fun! We hurried in to check out its ticket price. Our jaws dropped when we heard its charges. $6.50 for 4 min ride! That means it costs $1.625 per min. God! Even more expensive than Singapore Flyer which costs only $0.983 per min! I'd rather splurge the money on the observation wheel which offers more aerial and breathtaking views. I wanted to send Rynae to Explorer Kids but was also turned off by its steep ticket pricing. $22/child/entry/hour and each adult has to pay $1.50 to get in. I refuse to succumb to this extortion. We didn't stay long there as there simply wasn't much to entertain us. How could such a place sustain if there isn't interest and human crowd? I'll bet with my last dollar that the tenants' accounts will be seeing red soon.

We thought of settling dinner at the nearby Fisherman's Village. As it was still early, we allowed Rynae to play in the sandy children's playground and also had a short walk on the beach. Our growling stomach hurried us to fill it up hence we began our search for the Fisherman's Village, which all of us haven't gone for years. After half an hour of futile search, we still couldn't locate it. Six sense told us that it has been demolished. Indeed it is! We finally found a location map which has the spot 'Fisherman's Village' blanco off. When did this happen and where was the publicity? None of us had a clue. All of us were famished then and we make do with a seaside restuarant, Summer Breeze. Their food's not too bad. The whole day out has tired Rynae, who fell asleep in the car... all the way to the next morning, without a bath. *Yucks*

Wednesday, October 01, 2008

Children Day Celebration

Children's Day this year is eventful. It not only coincides with Hari Raya, it is also the day to burn bigger holes in our pockets as SBS increased their fares by 4 cts, SPH increased their prices for some of its newspaper and electricity tariffs increased by 22%. Yes! All on 1st October! What fortuitous timing huh!

To 'celebrate' this all-in-one day, we brought our star-of-the-day to Vivo City for some outdoor fun at the children's playground and pool at the sky garden. The weather was wonderful! It was windy and cloudy but the sky's not the least gloomy.

Next pit stop was the Merlion. It was the first time Rynae got introduced to this national icon and from then on, she never stop talking about it. Our friend even spat the water forcefully when she brushed her teeth, mimicking the Merlion!

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Children's Day in School

Banzai! Rynae's school is having a Children's Day celebration today and kids are encouraged to wear party or ethnic clothes. Mummy borrowed a Yukata from Da Yi so as to dress Rynae up as a (counterfeit) Nihonjin. Isn't she cute? Our party-goer came back with 2 bags of goodies - 1 with lots of tidbits and the other with gifts. There were gifts from Teacher Meena, Teacher Dila, a cup from Vitagen, a book of stickers and a souvenir mug with tooth brush and towel from the school! What a happy, fruitful day.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Going Organic

Recently, grandma's been supplying me with organic spinach bought from Yong Xu Organic Enterprise in Chong Pang market. I found out that this stall's actually pretty famous amongst north-landers! Several of the people I spoke to has or is still buying from this stall. Few days back, on my way to a hair salon, I passed by an organic shop in Yishun central. It is actually the main retail shop of the mentioned organic enterprise! Who would expect an organic shop in a neighbourhood? Of course I set my foot inside.

I looked around the shop particularly for suitable (and less dear) food and tidbits for Rynae. Many were expensive and I felt the pinch. Organic food, though safer and better for health, are also known for its cut throat prices. Unless one has deep pockets, one cannot afford to go full organic. There were 2 items that I went home with and I'm definitely going back to replenish. They're the brown rice cheese rings ($2) and the chocolate soymilk ($1.50) that tasted just like chocolate milk. Both were yummilicious and our friend love them!

In case you're interested, here's its addresses. No worries. I aren't gonna get paid commission for introducing you there.

Main:
Blk 921 Yishun Central 1 #01-257 S760921
6481 5508

Branch (close on Mon):
Blk 104 Yishun Ring Road #01-29 S760104
67574578

Thursday, September 25, 2008

First Play Doh

Our friend has been requesting me to buy Play-Doh for her for the longest time but I wasn't too keen to get her one. Honestly, I don't really like playing with Play-Doh as it has a pungent smell, can be messy and it also irks me to see the nice colours get mixed together. Not only that. The dohs get stuck in my nails and it's as uncomfortable as... as G-string in the butt-crack! All said, I did eventually get her one during recent Metro's 20% storewide sales. It wasn't so smelly as what I remembered it to be. Its texture was also much smoother and nicer to the touch now. The set came with 2 doh colours - blue and yellow. It was another educational activity for Rynae to learn colour mixing as she got green (accidentally) from mixing the 2 colours!

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Looks like who?

The most common thing that people comment about a child is his or her resemblance - looks more like mummy or more like daddy. I've hence heard countless remarks but have no consensus todate. Some said Rynae looks like daddy, some said like me and others said she has her own look. I came to know of MyHeritage Look-alike Meter that claims to use state-of-the-art face recognition technology to determine the resemblance of a child. Out of curiosity, I gave the 'test' a shot. Waiting for the result was like waiting for quick pick - kinda hopeful and anxious. The first outcome announced that she looks more like me by 22%! Unbelieving its technolody, I ran it twice. This time using a different set of pictures. Still, it claimed that she looks like me by 10%. Somehow true I agree because I do see some resemblance of me and her. She's lucky to inherit some of my beauty! Wahahaha...

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Got Melamine?

The dust hardly settled after appalling the world with its shoddy tyres and lead-contaminated toys and now China has got into another tainted milk scandal. Like many others, Mummy combed the fridge and cupboard, study all labels and threw away suspicious food products made from China that has milk as an ingredient. Not many luckily. Well, they might not be dairy products but I'm not taking any chances! Rynae loves Vitasoy and she'll have to live without it for a while... all thanks to Sanlu! God bless the sick children speedy recovery.

Friday, September 19, 2008

DIY Pencil Holder


Using toilet rolls to make pencil holder is not a novelty and you could have done it in your younger days too. It is almost inevitable to produce one when your child starts owning stationeries. So, we make ours this afternoon - just a simple structure that serves its purpose of keeping her writing materials in place.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Starting on Tangram


I went back to Kiddy Palace to grab a box of tangram (SP $4.90) after thinking about it for several days. I have no intention to purchase it at first because I reckon Rynae would be able to form many figures creatively at this age. Furthermore, the suitability of this game, as written on the box is for ages 5 and up!

After mooting about the usability of it, I decided to give the game rule a twist by copying some easy figures onto pieces of paper and ask Rynae to try to solve the puzzles with the tangrams instead. That'll bring the difficulty level down yet serving its brain drilling purpose. She requested for help to complete some parts of the figures but also did manage to fit some herself.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Demise Of Print Media?

It was a lamentable week with news of Lehman Brothers' closure, the shakening of AIG and adding to these miffs, the anouncement by Mediacorp to cease publication of its 4 titles, which includes one of my favourate read - Vanilla, a women's lifestyle magazine that focuses on an enriching and inspired living.

Vanilla was launched from the ashes of six year old parenting title Family and editorial has also freshen up to include latest in food, fashion and lifestyle, family tips, social trends, technology and wellness updates. Inspiring and capable but underexposed women graced their covers and women they interviewed are always great role models, trend setters and opinion leaders that one couldn't help looking upon and working towards becoming one.

Being a mother in this new era does not mean a woman that lives in an auntieville anymore. Our roles as mothers have evolved over the years and we go beyond taking care of our children's needs. We're not only mothers, we're individuals with multi-faceted life who wants to balance parenting with career and personal time for leisure and hobby. Vanilla is, I could say akin to chicken soup for the mother's soul. It nourishes our souls and gives us satisfaction as individuals.

News has it that Mediacorp has decided to call it a day for Vanilla because of the evolving media habits of consumers and changing advertising trends. It is a downright cruel decision. Everything is about money sense.

Billy Goat Gruff

Every 3 weeks, Rynae's school will select a story theme and base most of its activities on it. I found out from her that her teacher has read 3 billy goats gruff to the class for this term. Coincidentally while web surfing one day, I slipped into The Toy Maker, a wonderful website with lots of FREE paper crafts and found some paper models on this fairy tale.

Believing that parents should support teachings and supplement enrichment, I printed the 3 goats and troll for her to enact the story. The goats' legs were a bit wobbly so I glued chopsticks to make them more sturdy. By inviting children to observe, study, experiment and eventually explore the characters in a story, we are helping to enhance their natural curiosities and eagerness to learn. It was a simple story so she finished 'telling' it in a flash. At least I can be assured that she pays attention in class! Haha.

When telling the story becomes run of the mill, she gave the goats new identity - Rynae, Mummy and Daddy and began her wild expedition along the sofa. I did try to tell her that those are BILLY goats meaning they are boys thus cannot be Rynae or Mummy but she was oblivious to their gender. It doesn't really matter actually.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Teaching of Tradition: A Headache!

For the past few weeks, Mummy has been reading up on Mid-Autumn Festival Folklore. There were a dime a dozen websites about the myth of Chang Er and Hou Yi and the uprising against the Mongols in China, in the 14th century. The more I read, the more baffled and confused I became. There were so many versions of the Chang Er and Hou Yi myth!

Some stories said the duo were both immortals, some said one was and one was not while some said both were ordinary beings! A few versions narrated that the Jade Emperor praised Hou Yi for shooting down the 9 suns while conflicting stories wrote that the Jade Emperor wasn't the least pleased. Most of the folk tales didn't really put the couple in a good light. Chang Er seemed like a scheming woman who stole her husband's pill of immortality while Hou Yi seemed to be an unforgiving and selfish husband who wanted to shoot Chang Er down upon knowing that she had flown off to the moon with the pill!

I borrowed 1 English, 1 bi-lingual, 1 Chinese and 2 VCDs that are Mid-Autumn Fest related from NLB to read and play to Rynae but these weren't what I am looking for actually. They were either too wordy, too out-of-context or too boring.
Nonetheless, customs or myths may vary but sense of unity and harmony that this tradition brings will always be the same. After these days of 'research', I did learn more about the Mid-Autumn Festival, the second most important Chinese festival after CNY. Mummy simplified the story to Rynae as Chang Er and Hou Yi who were husband and wife, gets to meet on the moon every year during the mid-autumn festival....

Futile Harvest

Remember the chillis and onions that Rynae and Mummy planted? After 2 weeks of futile wait, there are still no signs of life for the onions and the miserably few chilli seedlings are wilting one after the other. I told you I haven't any green fingers lor. I'm a green horn! So.. the saying of you reap what you sow is not entirely true huh? One might not reap anything sometimes. Hee..

I decided to pull the plug on this first attempt of gardening and dug out the 2 foul-smelling, rotten onions. I ploughed the soil in both pots and goodness me! The soil beneath was hell muddy! We have drowned the plants! I re-sowed some new chilli seeds, this time making sure I didn't plant them too deep down. The other pot of vacated soil was left to dry. Tommorrow I'll buy some onions and restart all over again. Cross my fingers this time.

Saturday, September 13, 2008

Mid Autumn Eve Festival Celebration

Mid-Autumn eve was an eventful day. Not only is Covenant Church having its offical open house, Admiralty GRC is also organising an annual Mid-Autumn Festival celebration for its residents. I told Rynae about the line-up for the day and she was so excited that she woke up after just an hour's nap!

She had lots of fun at the church open house. There were FREE pop corns, FREE drinks and FREE umbrella souvenir. She tried her hand at some games and were so proud of her wins.

After a quick dinner, we hopped to the park to take part in the Mid-Autumn Festival celebration. Mummy makes it a point to attend the traditional celebration every year so that Rynae would not lose touch with her roots. It is also a time to break ice and mingle with neighbours! Rynae played with some candles and got her fingers burnt hence she stayed clear of fire all night. The highlight of the night was the lion and dragon dance and these performances are Rynae's all-time favourite. While watching the dragon dance, she made a comment that the dragon wanted to eat the lollipop. She was actually refering to the fire ball! This cracked us up. It sure looks like a greedy dragon!

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Colours of my Life

Children are always mesmerised by colours thus usage of colours as a teaching approach is always well-received. Rynae loves painting hence to give it an educational slant, Mummy decided to teach her the wonders of colour mixing. I've just replenished some poster colours and I've got 2 choices: Gooey paints vs runny colour water. I choose the latter because results are more instantaneous and less prone to abuse by my notorious gal. To cut a deeper impression in her, I did up a record sheet for her to jot down her findings. It was fun but I doubt she'll remember all the results. Gota reinforce through repetitions and revisions.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Sewing Cards

I came across some sewing cards and decided to DIY them as a fine motor skill activity for Rynae. Instead of the usual white papers that I use, I decided to print the cards on different colours of construction papers and laminated them for durability thereafter. As I had guessed, Rynae picked the green truck to tread first. Why? Because that is her favourate colour!

Monday, September 08, 2008

Chalk Scribblings

Mummy let Rynae play an old school game today - chalk scribblings. I still remember the days when chalks were such must-haves. It was not only used as a teaching tool but I could also whiten my dirty school shoes and draw hop scotches with it!

Rynae didn't know what to draw when I first handed her the chalk. I guided her along by tracing her slippers and she filled in the patterns. I drew a house and she drew the clouds and sun. I also played imaginatively with her by drawing a bridge with crocodile under it. I drew our toilet bowl and she added in a sensor flush! I wish we had one.

She volunteered to clean up the drawings on the floor so I passed her a broom and she did a thorough job in cleaning up!

Sunday, September 07, 2008

Parenting Workshop Afterthought

I attended another FREE parenting workshop, titled Peak Performance through Brain Training held by Singapore Brain Development Centre at Singapore Management University today. It was spear-headed by the enrichment centre hence no goody bag was given this time (Urgh!). Nonetheless, it was a constructive 2hr and I picked up new parenting knowledge on how to stimulate, motivate and drive young minds.

Contrary to what many people thought, IQs are not fixed and our brain can actually be trained. Though 'smartness' can be passed down genetically, however it only accounts for 20% of the brain. In another word, 20% is from nature and 80% is from nurture. At birth, a baby's brain weighs just 500g but by age 6, it can grow to 1500g. Hence, the 1st 6 years of a child's life are very important because processing speed, logic and reasoning and long term memory decreases as age pass. That is why I am always giving excuses that I am old when I forgot something!

The flow of learning is as such:
Input ----> Processing ----> Output

A brain will grow only when the child starts to think. To help them to tink, we have to play with them symbolically and imaginatively and put them in a problem solving environment. Parents must be childlike so that we can enter their world. This is how to communicate and stimulate them.

There are 6 main brain areas for training:
  1. Processing speed
  2. Visual Processing
  3. Working Memory
  4. Logic and Reasoning
  5. Auditory Analysis (Listening)
  6. Word Attack (Reading)
Parents need to give love: soft love, regular love and tough love. A child must feel loved and happy in order to learn. Every child must have a dream so that they will try their best to achieve it.

Thursday, September 04, 2008

Anchorvale Swimming Pool

We heard that there's a new swimming pool, 4th week into its opening in Sengkang so we went with Rynae's Aunt and cousins to check it out. There weren't much search results about this place hence I shall provide you with more details on behalf of SSC.

We could see several slides even before stepping into the compound and this excited the little ones. However, children below the age of 5, as well as those with necklaces are not allowed to play on it. The irony is, those with goggles strapped around their neck are allowed! Someone please enlighten me on this. I didn't play on the slides and stayed in the children's pool with Rynae most of the time.

I also tried out the bubbles pool and it worked just like Uzap! 5 minutes on the bubbles and it made my butt and tummy itch like hell! This sounded an alarm - it's time to hit the gym! There was a 0.9m jacuzzi pool and the water in it felt slightly warmer. Amongst all features, I personally tink that the indoor olympic pool is cool! It suits me best because I love to swim but hate the sun! I'm gonna do laps next time I step my foot in here!

Address:
Sengkang Sports and Recreation Centre
57 Anchorvale Rd
Singapore 544964
Tel: 6315 3576

How to get there:
1) Take LRT from Sengkang Station and alight at Farmway station.
2) Take bus 372 and alight at anchorvale link.
The sports complex is located beside Anchorvale CC and within walking distance from Farmway LRT station.

Close Shave Gifts from Bangkok

Amidst international media attention on Thailand's political unrest caused by protesters to pressure the resignation of Samak Sundaravej, Grandma went ahead with her Bangkok trip. She got back yesterday midnight with repeated assurance that life in Bangkok is functioning as per normal. Riots in Bangkok are apparently kept in control and only in designated fenced-up ground; not as tense as what the media has portrayed. See how our perceptions and thoughts are shaped by powerful mass media? Anyway, she brought back some clothes for Rynae and some chewies for Mummy! I like the Billabong top and skirt but it is a little oversized. Maybe next Summer Rynae will be able to fit in.

Raising Transport Height Limit

I read with interest, a Monday article in The Straits Times about an article titled 'Fare or not? Height of contention'. In gist, it's contention from some parents about the free travel height limit of 0.9m that transport operators have set. Currently, toddlers or children above 0.9m but who are still below the age of seven have to pay child concessionary rate, which ranges from 40 to 50 cts. Some parents are trying to agitate for the height limit of 0.9m to be raised, citing reasons that the height limit is unrealistic because children are growing taller these days.

I started charting Rynae's height only recently but I remembered that when she was 30 months, she was already past 90cm! She is now pushing 99cm but I have not paid a single cent for her transportation. I too, felt that the height limit should be raised just like Beijing, which raised its height limit for free travel from 1.1m to 1.2m.

Our gah men is encouraging people to take public transport and urging families to have more babies right? Besides giving a bigger baby bonus, 1 more month of paid maternity leave and more childcare leave, it would be absolutely fabulous if children free transport be looked into too.

To what I understand, some children are already 90cm by their 2nd birthday. Why should transport operators be profiteering from defenseless toddlers? I am looking forward to the day where more hypes will be stirred on this issue and make rules change, just like the successful petition to bring forward the effective date of the baby benefit schemes.

Tuesday, September 02, 2008

Preparation for Lantern Festival

Homemade is always best in my book as it is always more gratifying and without a doubt, more memorable. We've resorted to commercially-made lanterns in the past 3 years and this year, Mum has decided to make one out of recycled materials. I'm trying to reduce my carbon footprint remember? So I've to talk the talk and walk the walk!

Materials for my lantern are simple:
  • 1 plastic folder (preferably with prints)
  • Scissors
  • Super Glue
  • String
  • 1 empty drink carton
  • 2 ice cream sticks
  • 1 circular plate
  • Marker/pen

Here are the steps IF you're interested to make one for yourself or your kid too!

  • Place the plate over the plastic folder and trace circular shapes on both sides and cut out both circles.
  • Hold the 2 circles together and punch holes on the top of them.
  • Cut out the bottom of the empty drink carton and glue it the lower end of a circle. The other circle follows thereafter.
  • Measure the ice cream sticks against the width of the cut-out empty carton, make a marking and bend along the markings on 2 ends. It will look like a bench if properly bended.
  • Glue the ice cream sticks onto the 2 circles. This is to make the lantern more steady.
  • Thread the string through the punched holes and tie a dead knot.

Tadah! All done. Simple isn't it? That's not all. I also made some paper lanterns, a craft that I remembered from my primary school days, to be used as decorations in the house! Now.. gota also educate Rynae on the meaning behind all these..

Monday, September 01, 2008

Green Day

It doesn't need to be Earth Day to do gardening. On a fine afternoon, I decided to kick start an agricultural course for Rynae to let her understand how to do planting and how plants grow. Mum's not a person with green fingers but growing onions and chillis shouldn't be too difficult I guess? Rynae wanted to drop the whole chilli fruits as seeds after seeing me bury the 2 onions. Of course she soon learned that we have to cut the chillis and sow their seeds into the soil instead. I had choosen small chilli padi because of its cute miniature size but both of us suffered from finger chilli burns thereafter. Ouch!

I was stunned when Rynae poured an enormous amount of water into the soil when she tried to water the plants. I explained to her that too much water will drown them and she replied, 'because I want my plants to grow bigger'. Oh.. children...

If these 2 plants are a success, I might consider growing more! Like tomatoes and lady's fingers. Wish us luck and I'll keep you posted on their growth!

Sunday, August 31, 2008

Night Safari

Finally the day had arrived - 31 August. Mummy had waited the whole of August for the Hungry Ghost Festival to end so that we could visit the Night Safari at a 50% discount off entrance fee! Not that I'm superstitious but I'm just trying to avoid the avoidable. Night Safari is known for its extortion ticket price so having a 50% discount means a savings of $27.50 for 2 adults and 1 child. Quite significant isn't it?

We had our dinner at Bongo Burgers and spent a little while watching the Tribal Dance Performance at the entrance but alas that was a mistake! We should have gone in at the strike of 7pm and headed for the Creatures of the Night Show. Visitorship was so overwhelmed that 7.30pm show was full. We had to go for a 45min tram ride instead. There weren't a lot of variety of animals and we couldn't even locate some of them in the darkness! By the time we finished our ride, it was around 8.10pm and we were so filled with anguish that the 8.30pm show was full house too! To kill time, we went to trek the fishing cat trail, 1 of the 3 trails that visitors can explore on foot. Nothing much to see too. Most of the animals were getting ready for bed and the crocodiles have turned in already! Well, sweet dream ya?
Thereafter, we went to queue for the 9.30pm show at 8.30pm. The show had better be worth the wait. We complained then. It turned out to be very similar to the other shows at Jurong Bird Park and Zoo. They're afterall under the same management. Humour and suspense were the main perks of the show; not so much the tricks performed by animals. We headed home after the show because there really weren't much attractions left.

This is an outing that I took the least photos because no flash photography is allowed on all the animals, including during the show! Hence, I only posted a picture of Rynae against a Night Safari logo as backdrop (Ignore the 3 calefares in the background. It wasn't easy to get a clear coast).
After all is said, Daddy and Mummy prefered the day zoo where we could go on foot around the whole park, have clearer visibility and let Rynae play at the children's world playland. I guess unless we get pro bono entry, we wouldn't be stepping into Night Safari for quite a while...

Saturday, August 30, 2008

RSAF Open House

On Friday night, Dad casually suggested going to watch aeroplane on Saturday and I thought he meant going to Changi Airport. This morning, he clarified and I realised that it was actually RSAF's Open House that he had proposed. What a miscomm. I commended him outright and applaud his idea without hesitation. This would be such a good opportunity for Rynae to get up close with majestic fighter planes and helicopters! Brilliant. We took free shuttle bus provided by RSAF at Hougang bus interchange. There were clear directional signs to lead us to berth 6 and waiting time was almost zero! There were also many friendly RSAF cadets to usher us. We felt so appreciated.

When we reached RSAF Museum, we had to queue up to have our bags checked for security reasons. We didn't and shouldn't complain as this is understandable. Luckily, the queue moved fast and we got through smoothly. I started clicking away with my camera. The sky was already looming with dark clouds when we got in. It was worrying but we prefered the cool weather to scorching afternoon sun. We managed to explore the outdoor planes on exhibition and admiration before it started to rain.

We took shelter in a hugh, enclosed marquee eatery and came out smelling like dead rats! RSAF seriously needs to improve on its ventilation. Food was edible but rather expensive. After the passing shower, we went to Kids Zone. There were 3 gigantic floats and the happiest person is non other than Rynae. She climbed, somersaulted and rolled in all 3. Expectedly, when it was time to go, she was so stinky and sticky that any flying insect that came into contact with her will get stuck onto her skin.

We didn't stay throughout the postponed Aeriel Display but we did catch some parachuters and watch some perfomances by deafening jets on our way out. RSAF's hospitality had given us a pleasant Saturday. Well done and keep it up! I leave you with some event shots we took today....


Friday, August 29, 2008

More Animal Crafts

Adding to the brood, Rynae brought home another snake and elephant today. With all her toys and crafts, my house is looking more and more like a child care centre. Tommorrow marks the start of a 1-week holiday and that means unrest at home too. Luckily it's just 1 week. I think I can bite it through. Hopefully.

Happy Teachers' Day

It never crossed my mind that I have to repeat what I did 20 years ago - giving presents to teachers on Teachers' Day. True enough, what goes around comes around. Rynae was nonchalant when I told her that Teachers' Day was round the corner. At this age, toddlers simply don't understand the meaning of each festival hence I'll have to inculcate the values behind each. Mum never take it easy when it comes to gifts because it shows a presenter's personality, how much he/she knows the recipient and the importance of the recipient. Mum wants to give something useful and practical. After days of brainstorming, I decided on hair accessories as both teachers have long hair!

To show her bit of sincerity, I asked her to doodle on 2 pcs of paper, which I made into wrapping papers. I also printed 2 greeting cards for her to colour but she brushed it off with messy strokes. Her teacher should believe without a doubt that this is solely her effort.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Jungle Animal Crafts

Our friend came home today with a lot of animals! She brought home a tiger, giraffe, elephant and many more jungle animals! So teacher has been reading Walking Through the Jungle with the children and these are crafts to elaborate about the story! Isn't it fun to attend pre nursery?

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Soupilicious!

I don't usually buy recipe book but I took a fancy to The World of Nourishing & Fine Soups by Kenny Chen because it is bilingual (most important purchasing factor actually), has simple layout and uses common ingredients. Rynae loves drinking soups thus mum decided to dish out lotus root soup with peanut and mushroom stem to whet her appetite as well as to boost our health.

Ingredients are:
lotus root 40g
red dates (seeded) 3
candy dates 2
peanuts 15g
chinese mushroom stems 15g
stock 100ml

I try to follow as close as possible to the recipe but I have no idea how much of each ingredient I added as I had no weighing scale! So.. everything was agar-ration. I also didn't know what the hell is chinese mushroom stem! Guess what? I added dried mushrooms! Stock too, was modified to plain water.

This remedy is supposed to tonify the heart, regulates blood circulation and improve appetite. My modified soup tastes saltish sweet and the smell of mushroom stands out quite a bit. Still drinkable lah...

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Gone Fishing

Some salesman's been to Rynae's school recently to promote Sounds Write! "The Phonics Series" (USP $79.90) at $35.50 but Mum didn't buy it 'cos I felt it's too advance for beginners. Hence, Mum has to do the teaching herself. Rynae has learnt letter blending with 'at' like cat, mat, sat so it is time to move on with 'ap' and 'an' and then digraphs like 'sh' and 'th'.

She's getting bored with picture and word matching (oh kids!) so I've gota plan another teaching method. What a headache. I tweak our usual game by attaching paper clips to each word card (no pictures this time) and got Rynae to fish out the correct word. I've gota provide excitement enough to learn but not over excited until she is over-awed, in order to keep the learning process going.

Rynae's excited about anything new so she's taking the fishing game quite well. Hopefully this method will tide me by for a while...

Saturday, August 23, 2008

Pasta Necklace

Rynae started her first pasta necklace business recently and business is expected to be picking up. Never mind that mum only has 4 poster colours. This little entrepreneur is able to expand the range of colours by simply messing and mixing up the paints! She now knows that when you mix blue and yellow you get green. Workmanship of the necklace is excellent, with thick and uneven coats of paints! But that's what we call art. The shortfall is you've got to be careful to keep it dry while you're wearing it 'cos it'll leave paint stains on your shirt if it's wet! Then again, this will teach one to wipe their hands properly after washing their hands! Haha. Now.. if you wish to own one limited edition Rynae's pasta necklace, place your orders now... C'mon! Show some support....

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

1st Italian Homecook Pasta

It's always a headache when it comes to lunch. So what shall I cook for the little gourmet today? On days when I am lazy, I'll just cook all-in-1 porridge. Other days, it'll be soup-based vermicelli or noodle. I decided to be a risk taker today - prepare Rynae's 1st homecook Italian pasta! Which 'D' does it look like? Disgusting or delicious? Haha.. Consume with gusto!

Sunday, August 17, 2008

First Customer of the Day

It's time for a visit to the hairdresser again! Bye my locks...

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Perfecting Parenthood Seminar

The moment I knew of Perfecting Parenthood : Tips Tricks and Truths to Raising a Well-Developed Child seminar organised by CNA, I went online to check out the speakers, speech topics, and the ticket price. There has been a lot of such parenting talks but I had attended none as I believe most of these seminars with shallow insights are organised as a sales opportunities for merchants to hard sell their products and courses to unfailing parents. I was surprised when I saw the ticket price: $11 for early birds! That's relatively cheap! Attractive pricing aside, the topics covered were interesting and having CNA as an Organiser gives some credibility. I wasted no time in grabbing hold of an early bird ticket. Luckily I did that because the seats were all sold out in the end!

Steven Chia, the suave prime time morning presenter was the host and he was a humourous dude who cracks intelligent jokes! I thoroughly enjoyed the afternoon with them and I brought home not only a bagful of goodies but a more inspirational and positive mindset towards parenting. This is what I gathered from the seminar:


Every child has core needs and it cuts across culture. Attend to a child's core needs because when core needs such as basic safety, protection and love are not met, it results in lifetraps like emotional deprevation, entitlement and unrelenting standards. Constantly give affirmation to your child and recognise and praise the efforts as much as results. Parents have to be assertive too. Say what you mean and mean what you say. There is no such thing as perfect parents. The most we can achive is "good enough" parents. "Good enough" parents are about striking a balance.

There are 3 simple "secrets" to having an intelligent child.

First, parents need to have a correct mindset. We need to know how to excite, enroll and enjoy with them. Children look up to us and if we enjoy the symphony of life, the little ones too will..

Second, parents need to develop a thinking child. Teach them to ask questions, give them freedom to explore and help them ask the right questions. A child that is able to make the right decision is more important than having a high IQ.

Lastly, parents need to light up because when you light up, your child will shine.

Doesn't the concept of intelligence clash with what we as parents thought it is? Is it all about schools, jobs, universities and careers? Guess we all need to define what we call intelligence....

Friday, August 15, 2008

Phonics!

Now that Rynae has perfected her phonics stage 1 - learning the 26 letter sounds, I thought I should subsequently introduce digraphs and word blending to her. Well, I've tried simple methods like using alphabet-shaped toys but she is uninterested with this one-way teaching. Usually a chatterbox, she'll turn reticent and unresponsive. To tackle this, I DIY-ed several sets of pictures and words cards to play with her. There was a 360 degree change in her behaviour! Expectedly, everytime we play this 'matching game', she'll always request to hold the pictures while I, forever having to hold the words, will have to match hers. Of course I'll try to act dumb and illiterate so that she could correct me lah...

Hopefully by giving her a headstart on phonics, she can cultivate an interest to read at a young age. To become a competent reader, a child must be able to recognise letters as well as the overall shapes of words too. Rynae might know how to read a few words now but most probably might not be able to spell without aid but that is fine because the easiest way to know how to spell a word is to listen for the sounds in that word!

Thta's all fokls! Sitll cna raed waht I tpye evne thuohg I spel wornlgy? OMG! Soemone tel me waht phoincs is for! kekeke...

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Kitchen Lab

Crazy mummy wanted to teach Rynae some simple Science knowlege about solubility so I set up a 'lab' for her in the kitchen. We tried solutes such as salt, sugar, pepper, corn flour, soya sauce, coffee powder, milo, ice, chocolate and even ikan billis! Some of the solutions turn out pretty yucky and I purposely ask Rynae if she wanted to drink it!

HFMD Preventive Soup Recipe

Grandma passed me a newspaper cut out about a preventive recipe for HFMD. This article couldn't have come at a better timing, now that Rynae is schooling and needs to be ward off this epidemic! In this article, it mentioned that according to TMC, HFMD is caused by a deficiency of qi (most simply translated as energy) coupled with heatiness driven off by humid weather especially in a tropical country like Singapore. This saying, is contrary to western medicine that believes that HFMD infects children with weak immunity. Continuing from there, it also said that if a child were to be down with HFMD, having regular bowel movement and ample sleep speeds up recovery. Enough said, here's the recipe (no dosage mentioned):
  • Barley (I used china barley as it's 'cooler')
  • Winter melon strips
  • Bei Qi (helps retard aging and enhance immune system)
  • Codnopsis Pilosulae Radix (simply known as Dang Shen)
  • Wolfberry (simply known as Gou Qi Zi)

This 'soup' taste exactly like barley water with a slight wolfberry sweetness. Not as pungent as I expected it to be. It's a drink for everyone in the family! Last but not least, it sounds cliche but I'm still gonna say it.... Prevention is better than cure!

MAZE..zz.zz..z

Rynae has a fetish for mazes after attempting some easy ones I printed from websites. As I mentioned before, mazes are good in training children forward-thinking, hand and eye coordination and memory (I made her use her fingers first then memorise the route, thereafter use a pen) hence I've no qualms about her playing with it. Most of the maze activity books in book stores aren't suitable for 3 yr olds but I managed to grab 2 from Twinkle Thinkers at $5.90 each. No doubt price is a little steep but Kumon is selling mazes with similar difficulty at $8+! Downright daylight robbery!

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Sunday Children Church Programme

There is a new church, just diagonally opposite our house and today, the second week into its opening, Mum brought Rynae to its Sunday children's programme for some fun. There was inevitably some preaching worked into the activities but Rynae got to play with musical instruments and toys, colour, sing and dance too! Mummy stayed throughout as onlooker to monitor how Rynae and other children behave socially. Each child has a character and temper of its own. Some took it quite well to the temporary separation with their parents while others wail their heads off. Some were meticulous when they were asked to colour while others simply want to get it over and done with. Rynae was the latter - impatient and doesn't pay much to details. It was a pleasant start to a Sunday morning. My imp had whale of a time there!

Friday, August 08, 2008

Let's Party~! 08-08-08!

I jumped out of bed before the alarm clock rang this morning. Rynae, on the contrary, had to be lugged out of bed. Aren't she the one who was supposed to be excited? The school is having a National Day party today! As requested by the school, I dressed her up in red top and white bottom. She brought along a pack of crackers to school too, because the teachers want to educate their children the virtue of sharing and to strengthen their bonds as Singaporeans. Indeed. Instilling a sense of belonging and patriotism should start when our offsprings are still young (and gullible). Our miss Singaporean came back with a zipped folder as national day gift and stuffed inside, loads of goodies!

Thursday, August 07, 2008

Optical Illusion

An optical illusion is a visually perceived image that does not correspond to physical reality. After an image hit the retina, the brain will have to work hard to process the stimulus source, so as to make sense of the world. It is proven that left-brain vs right-brain and children vs adult, see optical illusion differently. Which means, what I see or could see might not be what Rynae could. Mummy has never shown any optical illusion images to Rynae so to kick-start the programme, as well as to test water, I DIY-ed a handy booklet with 18 optical illusions.

These illusions can be used as stimuli for her to create her own illusions! Definitely a good brain exercise. To testify what she actually saw, I had to continuously query, challenge and prompt her like a broken-record. Some curvy lines I perceived were reported to appear straight for her. I have completely no idea how to certify if she was speaking the truth though. However, I was sure she could see different dimensions of cubes as I made her count them - sometimes it was 6, sometimes it was 7 cubes. Rynae said the picture has magic!

Tuesday, August 05, 2008

Monkey See Monkey Do

For the past 3 weeks, Rynae was introduced to Zoo animals such as giraffe, elephant, monkey and so on in school. The children also learn about each animal's characteristic and the proper place to keep these animals. As you've guessed, the monkey in this picture is no other than Rynae. Green is her favourite colour so that explains why her monkey mask is green.

Book Review

Wherever Mummy goes, she's always on the look out for good bargains. Out one day, I passed by a second-hand book sale and grabbed 2 books for Rynae, which I would highly recommend to novice readers. Dr Seuss series of books are known to drill children in word rhymes and phonics but not all collections are suitable for Rynae. Old Hat New Hat is targetted at beginners thus repetitive and simple words are used. It uses mostly adjectives and Rynae seems to be able to read the whole book by herself now!

I would say Ready, Get Set Go! complements Old Hat New Hat as it emphasizes on comparison of adjectives. Characters are simple: just dad, sister and brother. It enabled Rynae to relate to the story better. She loves the book so much that she insisted on bringing it to school and teacher read it to the whole class!

Monday, August 04, 2008

Spill the Beans!

In Glamour Mum and the Dude, Pan Ling Ling provided a fever remedy tip - green bean with salt. For the benefit of those who have missed it, the recipe is to add 2 teaspoon of raw green beans and some salt into a cup. Thereafter, pour in boiling water and simmer for about 10 minutes. Consume after that. The weather is eccentric these days and Rynae showed some signs of heatiness so I decided to make this hassle-free drink for her. I tried some too myself and it taste akin to diluted green bean soup, err.. well, the salted type.

Friday, August 01, 2008

Memory Game


Today is the 1st day of the Hungry Ghost Festival but freak not. These aren't offerings. They're fruit artifacts that Mummy bought for Rynae when she was a baby. In an attempt to keep her occupied and at the same time engage in some meaningful games, I decided to play 'recall the items'. It's a simple game. Just collate a few items and choose some to be placed on a tray. Let your child have a look and then cover it up with a piece of cloth. Next, ask her to list out the items one at a time. Rynae is pretty good at it but occassionally, she'll forget 1 or 2 items and she'd try to peek! I'll then wrap the cloth over the fruit so that she can guess what fruit it is from its shape. Good brain game for me cus I got tested too! Very importantly, remember to pile on the praise when your child gets it right...